The story of Joseph in Matthew 1:18–25, often takes a quieter role in the Christmas story. Yet, Joseph’s actions speak volumes about integrity, faithfulness, and quiet obedience. Joseph was not the loudest voice in the room. In fact, the Bible never records him saying a single word. Yet, his actions show a heart fully surrendered to God’s will. Joseph’s quiet faith continues to shape our understanding of Christ’s birth.
As we study Joseph’s response to an unimaginable situation, we see a man of integrity and humility, obedient to God even when the path was uncertain. His life reminds us that the greatest impact often comes not from words but from steadfast faith in action. Let’s look at Joseph’s example and uncover what it means to live with integrity, believe God’s promises about our identity, and rejoice in the reality that God is with us.
1. Model Joseph’s Integrity
Joseph’s story in Matthew 1 is a powerful example of integrity in action. Faced with a situation that could have destroyed his reputation and turned his life upside down, Joseph chose to do the right thing — even when it did not benefit him and before he had all the answers. His actions demonstrate a remarkable depth of character, setting an example for all of us to follow.
When Joseph learned that Mary, his betrothed, was pregnant, the situation appeared scandalous. In his culture, honor was paramount, and the shame brought on his family could have been devastating. Yet, rather than acting out of anger or self-preservation, Joseph chose a path of quiet righteousness. The Bible says he planned to divorce Mary quietly, sparing her public humiliation and possible death. This decision reflected a heart of integrity — doing what was right, even when no one else was looking, and even when it came at great personal cost.
Integrity is not just about big decisions; it is revealed in the small, unseen moments of our lives. Joseph’s example reminds us to honor God in all areas — our families, workplaces, and communities — by choosing the right path, even when it is hard. His quiet strength and righteousness not only shaped his own legacy but also set an example for Jesus, his earthly son. This Advent season, let Joseph’s integrity inspire you to live with unwavering character, reflecting God’s righteousness in every aspect of your life.
2. Believe What God Says About Your Identity
In the story of Joseph, we see not only the identity of Jesus revealed but also Joseph’s identity affirmed. When the angel appeared to Joseph, he did not just tell him about the miraculous child Mary was carrying — he reminded Joseph of who he was. The angel called him “Joseph, son of David” (Matthew 1:20), a title that pointed to his connection to the lineage of King David. This reminder was a nod to prophecy and it was the confidence boost Joseph needed to step into his calling.
Joseph likely felt overwhelmed, unqualified, and unsure of how to move forward in a scandalous and confusing situation. But God, through the angel, reminded him of his true identity and purpose. It was after this assurance that Joseph obeyed, taking Mary as his wife and embracing his role in God’s redemptive plan.
Just as Joseph needed a reminder of who he was, we often need the same. The world constantly attempts to define us by our failures, fears, and insecurities, but as believers, our identity is secured in Christ. The Bible makes it clear who you are:
- You are adopted into God’s eternal family (Ephesians 1:5).
- You are a child of God, bought with the blood of Christ (John 1:12).
- You are chosen for a purpose (1 Peter 2:9).
- You are saved, justified, and forgiven (Romans 5:1).
- You are a new creation — the old is gone, and the new has come (2 Corinthians 5:17).
- You are indwelled by the Holy Spirit, the King of the universe (1 Corinthians 6:19).
- You are victorious, sharing in Christ’s resurrection power (1 Corinthians 15:57).
- You are an ambassador, called to represent God to the world (2 Corinthians 5:20).
- You are part of a holy priesthood, set apart to proclaim His gospel (1 Peter 2:5).
This Christmas season, let the truth of who God says you are reshape your perspective. The manger and the cross affirm your identity as chosen, loved, and redeemed. Do not let the world define you by its temporary standards. Like Joseph, believe what God says about you, and confidently step into the purpose He has for your life.
3. As You Live In Your Christ-Earned Identity, Rejoice That God Is With You!
The Christmas story reminds us that through Jesus, God is not just above us but with us. When the angel quotes Isaiah 7:14, saying, “They shall call his name Emmanuel, which means, God with us,” it carries incredible weight. God did not wait for us to climb up to Him; He came down to us. This miracle of the Incarnation — Jesus being fully God and fully man — demonstrates His desire to dwell with His people forever.
As fully man, Jesus experienced the struggles and temptations of humanity. Hebrews 4:15 tells us that He was tempted in every way, yet without sin, allowing Him to sympathize with our weaknesses. As fully God, He lived a sinless life, enabling Him to bear the penalty for our sins and offer eternal salvation. Through His birth, death, and resurrection, Jesus not only saves us but ensures we are never without Him again. When we trust Him as Savior, the Holy Spirit comes to reside within us, offering protection, guidance, and the constant presence of God.
This Christmas, let the promise of Emmanuel bring you comfort and courage. God is not distant — He is with you in every moment. And as you rejoice in His presence, remember those who may feel isolated or far from loved ones, such as missionaries serving in challenging places. Pray that they, too, would be encouraged by the truth that God is with us. Let this reality shape how you celebrate, how you pray, and how you live in the joy of your Christ-earned identity.
